wherever you are is the perfect place to be …

It might not feel like that if you're trapped in the office, a room with a screaming two year old or a hip replacement. But hear me out …

So often my clients say: "I have no choice … this is just the way it is"

And it doesn't have to be: that is just the way you have chosen it to be …

Look around you, where would you rather be? What would you prefer to be doing? Who with?

So, what's stopping you? Most often it is just circumstance … You have a family … you have a mortgage to pay … you have a demanding job … David Beckham's married … (hmmm … allegedly didn't stop some of us!)

OK … now … (stay with me) … pretend the circumstance was NOT in the way … just for fun … start planning how you are going to get where you really want to be … go on.

My guess is that some of you could begin to see the possibilities begin to unfold (hmmm … they could visit … could rent the house out … could have a sabbatical … could find the love of your life …).

Others of you will be horrified by pretending the circumstance was not there. Because those are the people, things and work you love. Without them your life is not complete and whilst it has its down side you are in the perfect place right now: so celebrate!

And … if it is NOT where you want to be it is still perfect because now it is an opportunity for learning, a launch pad, a resting place, a planning time, and you have the beginnings of a plan of how to get there … so celebrate!

However, if you need support in moving on give me a call on 01353 649114 or email jill@coachyou.co.uk